… Jesus tells us to love our neighbors as we love ourselves. This can be challenging when there is a divide between us, and that divide can be any number of things. The divide in “American Harvest” is cultural, religious, experiential, and educational, but it can also be a divide of language, race, national origin, sexuality, gender expression, able-bodiedness, and more. We will always find ways in which we are not like one another. But love one another we must. How do we do this when so many things may be seen as divides we cannot cross?
It’s always good to remember that love isn’t necessarily a feeling. Love, in its simplest terms, is an action, a verb. We love with our actions. We can feel awkward with someone who seems to be on the other side of a divide, but we can still be welcoming, we can still be hospitable. We can open our hearts in the way Marie seeks to, and, in the words of the great Ted Lasso, “Be curious, not judgmental.” When we don’t understand someone, we can ask a question that will help us, in one tiny way, to know them better. Ask a question you would be comfortable answering… “Do you like music, or sports, or…” and you can fill in the blank. Start gently. And always, remind yourself: We don’t have to agree with people to love them. We don’t have to approve of their values to demonstrate simple kindness and compassion…
Image: Joachim Kohler, Malanser Weintrauben (Grapes from Malans), Bündner Herrschaft, Switzerland, 2021. Used by permission. https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Malanser_Weintrauben.jpg.
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